Hello to all the girls reading this. I am writing this especially for you guys so that maybe, just maybe you can understand what I am feeling. And what I am going to talk about is love after the teen years and the choice to see the good in this time in our lives is ours and ours alone.
So many times girls just really make me angry. I get it you are forever alone. Get over it. Being bitter and sad about your pathetic loneliness is not going to make a man want you. Sorry sistah. I know so many girls who are just so resentful of the situation that they are in. Being alone. You have no one to keep you warm and happy, and that is something that most of us need and want. You see all of your friends dating, getting engaged, getting married, and it is just a depressant to your vibe. I understand. I have been there, for quite some time. So it isn't like I am one of those girls who has been in a relationship since high school and are annoyed with girls being annoying. You just are, sorry.
There is so much potential for your life individually. You do not need a man to feel complete. And I hate saying that because it is so cliche, but it is infallibly true. Sometimes we as girls need to learn to not be so dependent on others. We do it without even realizing it. We need another girl to go to the bathroom with us, WHAT IS THAT! What is the purpose? So we do not have to be alone. Think about every time you have asked someone to do something just so you didn't have to do it alone. It's crazy that we can't fathom it. Even the word, Alone, is just saddening.
I have learned to just enjoy this part of my life for now. Who knows when your life will change and you will find that special someone. But I can guarantee it is worth the wait. The person you are meant to be with is just like you, wanting to find that person they belong with. Just make yourself the best possible version of you and have fun. Your time will come.
So many times girls just really make me angry. I get it you are forever alone. Get over it. Being bitter and sad about your pathetic loneliness is not going to make a man want you. Sorry sistah. I know so many girls who are just so resentful of the situation that they are in. Being alone. You have no one to keep you warm and happy, and that is something that most of us need and want. You see all of your friends dating, getting engaged, getting married, and it is just a depressant to your vibe. I understand. I have been there, for quite some time. So it isn't like I am one of those girls who has been in a relationship since high school and are annoyed with girls being annoying. You just are, sorry.
There is so much potential for your life individually. You do not need a man to feel complete. And I hate saying that because it is so cliche, but it is infallibly true. Sometimes we as girls need to learn to not be so dependent on others. We do it without even realizing it. We need another girl to go to the bathroom with us, WHAT IS THAT! What is the purpose? So we do not have to be alone. Think about every time you have asked someone to do something just so you didn't have to do it alone. It's crazy that we can't fathom it. Even the word, Alone, is just saddening.
I have learned to just enjoy this part of my life for now. Who knows when your life will change and you will find that special someone. But I can guarantee it is worth the wait. The person you are meant to be with is just like you, wanting to find that person they belong with. Just make yourself the best possible version of you and have fun. Your time will come.