Have you ever met someone and just knew they were supposed to be someone in your life? You had this instant connection that is fleeting but left you wanting more.
It's so hard to have this happen. Like what can you do? Do you ask the person to be in your life forever? No, that would make them think you are a psychopath. It's a difficult thought.. You could miss out on someone really great, friend or relationship, just by being to shy to tell them how you feel..
I'm in the middle of one of these situations right now. An internal conflict of heart and head. It's weird normally your heart tells you to go for it and your head says not to, but right now it is the opposite. My heart has been hurt so much that it can't take it again, but my head knows that I need to speak up and tell him how I feel. He thinks I like this random guy and I just don't have the heart to tell him that it is him... It isn't like I really know this kid too much, but I just have this feeling about him.
I would tell him, but I am fearful of the rejection. I am so painfully shy that that amount of rejection would be too much for me to handle. Of course people tell me, "Well what is he says yes?" but asking a question doesn't mean you are going to hear an answer. People don't understand my past and the amount of rejection and criticism I have been through. So I would rather just push myself aside and let the extroverts take control, and hope that someday he will notice me as something more, or maybe even read this and understand, or not. But I'm going to just put this piece of advice out there for myself (Even if I won't follow it) and anyone else who will listen:
Try. Give interpersonal connections a chance. You never know who that person could be to you, in your recent or even future history.
It's so hard to have this happen. Like what can you do? Do you ask the person to be in your life forever? No, that would make them think you are a psychopath. It's a difficult thought.. You could miss out on someone really great, friend or relationship, just by being to shy to tell them how you feel..
I'm in the middle of one of these situations right now. An internal conflict of heart and head. It's weird normally your heart tells you to go for it and your head says not to, but right now it is the opposite. My heart has been hurt so much that it can't take it again, but my head knows that I need to speak up and tell him how I feel. He thinks I like this random guy and I just don't have the heart to tell him that it is him... It isn't like I really know this kid too much, but I just have this feeling about him.
I would tell him, but I am fearful of the rejection. I am so painfully shy that that amount of rejection would be too much for me to handle. Of course people tell me, "Well what is he says yes?" but asking a question doesn't mean you are going to hear an answer. People don't understand my past and the amount of rejection and criticism I have been through. So I would rather just push myself aside and let the extroverts take control, and hope that someday he will notice me as something more, or maybe even read this and understand, or not. But I'm going to just put this piece of advice out there for myself (Even if I won't follow it) and anyone else who will listen:
Try. Give interpersonal connections a chance. You never know who that person could be to you, in your recent or even future history.