Why do people treat others awful?
I get that we all get mad, upset, discouraged, even jealous. But why do we choose to act on our anger so often? It is so disheartening to see anyone treated so terribly. Especially when we are supposed to be a someone to that person. Whether it be friend, lover, or acquaintance. No one ever deserves to be disrespected and treated awfully. No matter what they did. So honestly, I don't care if you know the person well, shut up and don't talk about their personal lives with others. You can sit there and think what you want. But you have no place to pass judgement on any given situation or to spread gossip about it. You have no idea what the whole story is. And if you really want to know, go and talk to the person. See if they want to share and indulge you on the information. But If not, shove off mate. You have no place to say anything; not unless you know the actual real story. Along with that you need to see when you are personally hurting or being hurt by those you love. It's not worth the pain to stay. It's hard to walk away from a loved one or friend, but if they truly loved you, you would not be continually hurt by them.
I'm not trying to write this condemning anyone, that's not my point. This is a lesson for myself as well, somewhere where I need to grow and develop. All that I am trying to say is that we as humans continually try and poke around and are curious about everything and everyone around us. It's human nature. But there is a place when we need to draw the line and see that we are hurting people. Stop hurting people. And stop letting yourself be hurt by those people. You are worth much much more. You at a beautiful creature, who deserves every happiness available. So find it, and hold onto it. And let go of those who aren't in it for the long run.